tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6249235625004260587.post3098006614271452450..comments2020-03-06T00:40:53.160-08:00Comments on Life of a 40-Something: New Decade, New Rules: He is NOT My EverythingTammihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04445788261434736288noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6249235625004260587.post-20791315053096623232012-05-19T18:48:19.862-07:002012-05-19T18:48:19.862-07:00SO true.
Women should always INVEST in their frien...SO true.<br />Women should always INVEST in their friendships.coconoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6249235625004260587.post-89650741995906142092012-02-19T05:01:57.173-08:002012-02-19T05:01:57.173-08:00Hey Mari. I also read The Secret and The Power of ...Hey Mari. I also read The Secret and The Power of Now. I agree, they are both great books! I will have to check out The Power. I've never heard of that but I'm guessing I'd like it judging by your other choices. Thank YOU for sharing as well!Tammihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04445788261434736288noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6249235625004260587.post-53910880923324500872012-02-17T05:48:46.722-08:002012-02-17T05:48:46.722-08:00I agree with keeping your friendships and caring f...I agree with keeping your friendships and caring for yourself. <br /><br />This is not necessarily something I am telling you but what you made me thing of. "Energy goes where attention goes"-you mentioned this on a previous post. Attention and energy on ourselves will make us happy and our emotional being won't change with the changing of our environments (I love the book the power of now and a new earth that explain this point in such a great way). Also, When you make yourself happy and give yourselve the attention and energy you deserve, you will always have company and your significant other will love you even more, you will inspire and make them better too (hopefully). In any relationship where two people accept and love themselves and their other half just as they are, that relationship can't only but flourish. The only work in a relation is you, no matter what relationship you are on. Boyfriend, spouse, daughter, son, mom, dad, ect. No one belongs to us. All the love you have withing you are projecting on your relationships, so in a way they never take anything from you. They leave because they don't love themselves and can't project that love on you. "When someone treats you bad is because they feel bad". Then, "If someone treats you right is because they feel good". You have all the power and you always have you, you look wonderful and by what I am reading you seem to be on the right path-in my opinion-, I am 34 too and I have had very hard or lets say challenging moments in my life. I have been married 10, and I have learned a lot on it, it has been a journey but one very worth it. Some of the books I have read are The Secret and the new one: The Power by Byrne. I have also read The Power of NOW by Tolle, and it has a great chapter on relationships. Now I have to apply all of this to my weight situation!!!<br /><br />I need to loose 45-55 pounds!!!!<br /><br />Thanks for sharing and keep inspiring, I'll keep reading!!!!<br /><br />MariMarihttp://www.facebook.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6249235625004260587.post-80554541423990707982012-02-15T10:38:42.518-08:002012-02-15T10:38:42.518-08:00I love this post! Thanks for posting it :)I love this post! Thanks for posting it :)Melissa Graveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06629971046740187505noreply@blogger.com